The problem with filling your day with trying the person you love ... is to forget that you could spend all day thinking about the person you love. There is an episode spent in denial, but do in the nice way in which each for each other running around in secret adorable things. I do not see why you do not just take credit for your good deed and be rewarded with kisses, but I think that the needle will take out? What ever.
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EPISODE 13: "Do not lean and do not expect"
Since the Hourglass OST makes for maximum dramatic effect, Jang-mi and Ki-tae fight violently-they at the top of their lungs screaming and mutually slide around. Jang-mi begins in fear cower and take in a run off and Ki-tae after chase her back and yells at more to pull something.
I hate the fake-out cold open (those where the actual footage is a lie, not only the interpretation), but in this case I hope that this was an exaggerated
Rewind to Hoon-dong and Hyun-hee wedding. the pair to a round of cheers decreases, and Ki-tae is still looking for the wedding party for Jang-mi Search. she does not answer his calls because she threw her phone in the river, and she runs around trying to find him, and wished she had not been so rash. she starts to cry she thinks too late.
Yeo-Reum is the first to find them, and he thinks back to the other night when Jang-mi handed him an envelope of money. She tells him to repay Ki-tae loans with him what he refuses to do. She is shocked to discover that he is covered in spots and he realized at a construction site handwork done to make ends meet, and stated that he take the money.
She apologizes for an impossible dream to dream and to hurt everyone around them including Yeo-Reum. He chases after her to give the money back, and they give it back and forth dozens of times, to argue about who is better off: "At least I have the youth have" "Well, yes, I'm noona your Listen. to your noona. "" Noona, you do so much money have? "
He tests them by threatening to tear the envelope in half, and she cries, that it is their severance. She tells him that she has her own future to worry, and let him stand to keep the envelope on the street.
Back to the present he finds them standing in a daze, and she finally comes to and says that she tried to let someone off, this time to send, but make another chaos ended. Yeo-Reum says that when she clapped other happiness for someone, it is to find time for the two of them their own happiness.
He takes her to a seedy cafe and says he to renovate it. You may be the manager, and he will be the cook he will accept the money if it is an investment in his new restaurant. Of course it is skeptical that he can ever do enough to open a restaurant, but he swears he has another investor agreed to him after he cooked taste to support ten different dishes.
She's worried, he is deceived, and asks what on earth he in confidence to make this happen. He simply replied, "You." He says that she was the person who made him first dream. But she says she is done with dreams, and congratulated him find his dream.
When they together on their own ways, she says to herself: "I think I now know why people in love are cool .. . Do not lean on someone, do not expect anything ... It is not because you want to be alone, but because life must be lived on their own. Now that I have awakened from my dream, I see the reality in front of me. "
She focuses on herself for perhaps the first time ever, to begin with a brand new haircut, a new phone, and a determination newfound. She takes her resume around the city and take rejection after rejection from other boutiques and department stores.
Ki-tae bad mood of Jang-mi ignored spills over into his work, and when an addict plastic surgery comes in for a consultation, he gives up, choked and hidden their brains to explain why they not surgery should get courteous manner and tells her to go see a shrink instead get. Ha. She threatens him with her power bloggers shutdown capabilities, and he throws them trying to go.
When he passes down to the restaurant for lunch, Hoon-dong is back from his honeymoon with a new look courtesy of his new wife, and murmurs to himself that he has been to so very busy lives under her thumb even call.
Hyun-hee sits with Ki-tae down, noting bitterly that he seems after leaving Jang-mi in this state in order, and he replies that Jang-mi you to ignore him is. He thinks that she changed her number and quit her job to avoid him, but Hyun-hee corrected him, she was fired because of his mall brawls mother, and her parents divorced.
He is shocked to hear what's going on with her, and Hyun-hee takes lunch Hoon-dong brings him away, saying that he does not deserve it.
When Jang-mi house, Mom finally comes home and says that she wants to call off the divorce, but this time Dad grabs (the suitcase she just brought) and walks out the door. Jang-mi sighs, they should be soulmates, they are so similar, and wonders if what they fought about money all her life will be the thing in order to tear apart at the end.
Jang-mi finally told Mom fired over and goes to run the chicken business on your own. It consists mainly of after flying in front of the fryer swatting stand, and she reaches for a bottle of soju. She has a momentary dilemma whether she should stop drinking, and that's when Ki-tae happens to go in.
She thinks she has to introduce him at first, but he is really there. He says he heard about her job and her parents and wants to help compensate, because he feels responsible. Augh. They would try nursing with money from him to take. Tell her you love her, you fool!
Of course, they only get defensive and angry that he tried to throw them money as clean up some mess from his past, and spits back that they just let him get away and finally found their real life, so he should go. He gets dejectedly to leave, and she lingers just a little longer observed.
It turns out that power blogger has little scope, and leaves her nasty comments about Ki-tae arrogant, ignorant about women feelings and a bastard who lives his life alone (he is all mostly known true, ha).
is to spread gossip and soon has his clinic any patients. Aunt wonders whether the family should step in, but Mama says he wants to live his own life and to intervene, refuses.
Ki-tae does not seem though all concerned because he is obsessed with an entirely different matter: Stalking Jang-mi. He sits with her flying swat observe with most ridiculously excited expression on his face in front of her chicken shop.
he calls the store and sticks his nose to disguise his voice, and fumbles to remain anonymous, as he ordered in a nearby park for the supply of ten chickens. She grabs her happy and a man claiming on a bench, have ordered the chicken. She counts her cash cheerily removed before riding, and Ki-tae pokes his head out from behind a tree, satisfied calls to itself.
He then stuffed with chicken at home, and then the next day he again identical with the order. The same accomplice paying for the chicken in the park, and hands Jang-mi a drink: "He said this to drink for you ... I mean, you should drink"
Ki-tae then passes into the city provides the chicken to everyone he knows, for who could eat in his right mind ten chickens every day. (To Hoon-dong: "You have to eat it all, even the bones")
When grandma and aunt their chicken, grandma eat keen eye picks up the business to Jang-mi of the family belong to, and giggles at Ki-tae to stay the detour in Jang-mi life. Mom she overheard to say anything but.
mom so tight grip Dad that he can not even go longer than 15 minutes for a walk, so he asks what it is he wants. Mom: ". A divorce There is no way you or I ever escape this house with something, but a divorce." I thank her, she said, at last! to play
Hyun-hee further Amor and tells Jang-mi about Ki-tae clinic in danger its doors must be closed. Jang-mi meets Yeo-Reum for a drink and savors immensely the shot of Soju sigh that she was trying to quit drinking, so that she could concentrate on the search for himself.
He wonders why they such existential tire is going through, but she says that she has in the past only for other people lived and never. You do not want to lean on somebody else, because the more you reject [ ki-dae ], the more expected [ ki-dae ].
Yeo-Reum argues that life is more fun when you can expect things, and that she was better than she cared for and always went overboard. He awakens their interest when he asks if she should help Ki-tae, without knowing him.
Ki-tae still only at home lazing even chicken filling full and admiring the cute chicken belly he has developed. It rings and he lit think it's Jang-mi, and then runs frantically to clean up the evidence of his chickens binge before you answer the door.
His face falls when he opens it to see Se-ah and he does not seem to take as to sue the blogger and his practice back on track. Much interest in their plan She asks how long he would just sit there, but he says he always thought he had never been more peace, it would be better to keep going, more perfect, more.
He says that doing nothing was to liberate, and that he finally learned to let go. Se-ah sees through him and asks-over Jang-mi without saying that they have themed if changed, it is not only fear that he will try to hold on and lose it anyway because he embarrassed to rejecting would be if he tried. Se-ah says, there is nothing to be ashamed of it and plans to pursue these bloggers on their own.
Jang-mi and Yeo-Reum wait to do the same in a cafe, and Jang-mi fears that his whole plan of bloggers seems to charm in recanting. She says she feels bad about bringing him in this, but he sets them straight: "You're not the only one Ki-tae Hyung like I like him too much!" That's so sweet.
He says that if it is really sorry to go into business with him, and swears that he does not have ulterior motives about it. He increased a little when she nudges and he says he could, but he takes it back quickly.
Just as they are to give the blogger appears in the term, but they are surprised when Se-ah walks up to her first. She says that Ki-tae is going to sue them, and passes an envelope of money for their mental suffering. Jang-mi sighs to see that it is not yet needed.
Se-ah bloggers told that it is also a plastic surgeon, and she can see why Ki-tae refused to treat them. She says she is sorry for her face, that it met such unfortunate owner. Yeeeeeouch. I know that you are trying to help, but that is not going to help.
The blogger complains that pretty girls do not understand, but Se-ah, she says a product of plastic surgery is to-the difference being that it is obviously fixing her face loves himself, while the bloggers, because nobody loves them and trying to be someone else.
of bloggers reaches to beat them, and Se-ah grabs her by the wrist and asks if she should go online and call them a plastic surgery addict Monster. The blogger throws a cup of coffee from the Se-ah face and storms, ready to go to war.
Jang-mi and Yeo-Reum about driving safely Se to make ah's okay, and she tells them to stop the blogger to get away. Jang-mi goes after her and manages to overtake the car on a bicycle, and shocked to find her sobbing at the wheel. Jang-mi hands her a handkerchief and asks if she wants to grab a drink.
, to the chicken relocate business where Jang-mi listen to their story and takes her side. She says Ki-tae was wrong, he just could have, she said pretty looks, it is, but the Ki-tae she knows always chooses the hurtful thing to say at all times.
The blogger nod in agreement and then turn comforting Jang-mi, as she realizes that she is in love with that bastard. It is quite endearing, and the bloggers slurs between drinks, "I'll be better than the pretty bitch with you." Ha.
Meanwhile Ki-tae Mom hears every day that he comes has stopped working together, and stops only in chicken to drop off. She recalls are hung on Jang-mi of grandma comment about him and passes over them in the chicken shop to see.
But of course it is just in time to see her drinking with the blogger and cheer that Ki-tae got what he deserved. Oh no, now she thinks Jang-mi was in on it! Jang-mi stops cold when she stood in the doorway Mom looks and runs after her to try and explain.
Mom would not let them have their say, and says that she apologize here came her role in particular, and to ask them, Ki-tae to move aid. She says that she had high expectations for Jang-mi, which is why their disappointment was as great as well. She throws Jang-mi Revenge of drawing, and wonders if what she wanted was money all the time.
Jang-mi watches her and remembers all the times all around them provided they would marry Ki-tae for money. "That's it. That's all that people see when they see me next Gong Ki-tae."
Mom comes from Ki-tae Flat knee-deep him in chicken again find (seriously, I worry your arteries) and told him to get over it, because he has been deceived by Jang-mi to. She says that she saw Jang-mi with the bloggers with their own eyes plotting and Ki-tae screws sudden attention.
Jang-mi and Yeo-Reum drag the drunken bloggers in their car and Yeo-Reum she drives home. He asks Jang-mi again to go together in the economy, and asks rather uncomprehendingly, if it will make you a lot of money, then it's done.
Ki-tae is available at the chicken shop, but find a sign posted saying that they are temporarily closed. Meanwhile, Jang-mi takes a last order of chicken in the park, in the hope of finding the man who has been on the day of order ten. She gives him the chicken and says it to thank him before they close the shop for a while, and the man she finally told the truth about Ki-tae secret chicken orders.
you sitting in the park process tries which proceeded when Ki-tae calls and demands to know where she is. He charges up to want angry to know if what his mother said was true, and she asks if he would believe anyway. They cited what everyone has said-that her whenever a poor woman who has placed them on a rich man to the destination, there's always an ulterior motive.
He remembers now say the same thing about Jang-mi about Hoon-dong before she doused his face in juice, and how she was crying for her, it was love. This time, he pointed out that it was he who otherwise pushed him away to someone, and blames them for the continuation of his life to bother enough to be misunderstood by his mother. Oh, he takes their side
He has it all reminded that it has already suffered. how long he "Is not that enough? How much longer will you hurt because of me? How much longer will you cry for me?" he asks why they make a fool of him on top of everything, and asks the to see women he has treated in this way may be.
He realizes that he only his feelings burst out and follows him: "I like you, you frustrating woman!" Jang-mi is already tears all the time to spill, but that it begins running backwards from him and decreases. I know I can not be the only, they cry to go back for her purse.
He chases them and she says that she does not want to be by his side do not like the person she is when she's with him. She feels ashamed for the first time ever, and he argues that it is not the only-once he has never been insecure about herself, but she shakes him, and he doubts who he is because of her.
Ki-tae: "But I still want to be with you." Jang-mi says in a tiny I do not-mean-what-I-say-voice: "But we can not we are about." Ki-tae :. "The forgery us is over Henceforth we really want to do it. . "eEEEEEE!
He takes a step forward it to wrap in an embrace, and they break each in the sweetest smile of relief. He wipes away the tears and leans in for a kiss, and I love how they both attract each other just a little bit closer than they kiss.
go up to his apartment after that, and Ki-tae adorably fidgets tried to hold her hand, but every time they get close from punking. He pouts, they do not even come by once, when before them all the time would not come no matter how much he protested.
She's a little smiles that would be that he seemed to be waiting her. She admits that she once came to his door but turned around, and he lights up and holds her hand successfully.
go to his apartment, and she grabs the evidence of Ki-tae of it rock-bottom are seen everywhere chicken by air, the place is a mess, and she takes a breath and realizes that he has not even showered. She tells him, now hurry up and shower, and his mind immediately goes to a naughty place.
He is furious when she leads him into the bathroom and kisses him on both cheeks, and when she tells him to wash every nook and cranny well, he blushes and tears his clothes from the world's fastest shower on to take.
Hahahaha, we watch him wash every corner actually reach down! I'm dying.
he spends more and trying to figure out how to do her hair, and comes too moussed to do with this. "She thinks he's trying to leave the house and says he will not go anywhere because they long it will be up all night, and he just shut up, aLL nIGHT with stars in their eyes.
she tells him to to hurry up and get to a train, he throws her on the couch and lands on them with the warped lips. But unfortunately, sexy times is not what they had on the agenda (Why? Why was it not?) and sets they a vacuum in his hand and tells him to start cleaning.
He pouts at first, but they manage to find their own way skinship in the cleaning routine installation and piggyback each other around the apartment, as they make the place they are good as new.
Once completed, Ki-tae suggestive if they can now, and Jang-mi true wine asks rest. He jumps up to open a bottle, and she says she wants to say something before they start.
until he pops the cork seams and rose hips, and she finally comes out with him. She asks if they can keep things cool between them: Omo "Let's just date ... and do not get married.". Ki-tae stares at her back, struck by lightning.
COMMENTS
Well, that's the last thing we ever from Jang-mi in the come to expect mouth. It is entertaining to substantially each other although be seen, because it is evidence of how much they influence one another, for better or worse. Ki-tae has a snug stalking become ex suffering Jang-mi can not allow and goes out of his way in their affairs to his own arterial damage interfere. And Jang-mi strives to be a self-sustaining independent person to someone not to lean on and can be chilly in love.
I have nothing against the fact that they tried to set limits, since it would be foolish to jump from her with all the sorrow in blindly back that she has suffered, not to mention how traumatized both families are the broken engagement. That may be reason enough in check to keep marriage conversation for a good long time, although of course Ki-tae is not seen because he finally figured out what their heart desires.
There is a nice reversal, especially because only Ki-tae, the blame when it comes to Jang-mi, the new philosophy that comes to love. He told her she had to be alone, to find out who she is, and that they would cease to other leaning to stand on their own, so that's exactly what it does. I like the crooked / expectation pun in this episode, because there is a causal relationship-start on someone to lean on and trust them, and your expectations will undoubtedly increase. But who has loved, knows that this is a massive source of heartbreak, because the more you expect, the more you are in control of your happiness handing, and the greater the possible disappointments. Your somewhat desperate attempt to keep their expectations of the growing feels so real to me, and I like that she struggles with this, rather than rushing in all over again, as they would have in the past.
As always in this drama, to extend this relationship dynamics about romance, that I really love, and we find that mom feels the same kind of heartache and disappointment, in love and lose Jang-mi as a daughter-in-law. And for once Jang-mi finds himself on the receiving end of all these expectations too when she lets Ki-tae get too close, he is injured at the end, and so is his family. I can see why she thinks that fail to comply with conditions attached dating them both safe from hurting, even though we know that they have gone too far, that actually do.
The fun will be observed trying to cool things to play out, while Ki-tae-of all people, the guru of fishpond maintenance- tried to convince them that it is worthwhile to bet on everything. How the tables have, and how happy I am that they have. It's almost enough to show for interfering second leads to forgive run amok for weeks ... almost. Although today I have to give it for the best narrative using chicken PPL to the show that I've ever seen. It's not just chicken it's love!
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