Nan-hee struggles to maintain the status quo, while dealing with their fears, and everyone is fighting with the realization that Hee-ja delusional tendencies are not just a nice personality quirk, but something much more serious. You would think that would not make for a compelling hour and fifteen minutes, but these aunts who have stolen our hearts and a part of our lives make this episode as riveting as any other.
EPISODE 3: "As a mother until the end; as a fighter to the end - Part 1"
The doctor says Nan-hee, she would like to run a few more tests, and when she is ready to be prepared, they complained on the phone to Wan that her on a CT scan nobody tells anything. Wan believes in her mother's stubborn spirit, and told her the doctors to demand explain in detail why they want to test her and Granny again. Make a note of the statement on her cell phone when she can.
Nan-hee grumbles only that if Wan received so much worry, she should be with them, and then laying on her CT scan. Wan is not particularly concerned that the women know a long and healthy life in her family, and her mother is strong as ever.
The results show that Grandma's ulcer has become worse, and it argues that there is stupid to try and operate. You'd rather die first. Nan-hee assures her that she does not have to obtain an operation as long as she takes her pills. When it's Nan-hee's turn, the doctor tells her that they want to refer to a larger hospital to get an MRI.
There is a tumor on her liver, and they do not have the ability to determine if there is cancer in the hospital. Nan-hee tears him a new and insisted that they have never been sick and the X-rays must be wrong. But then she asks the doctor to explain - in simple terms -., What exactly he found on the X-ray
Suk-gyun tried to follow with the "10 Commandments of Being a good husband" that Choong -Nam posted on the refrigerator when he sets out to take care of his house itself. He can not understand what all the buttons mean on the washing machine or rice cooker, but at least he tried.
He finally calls Jung-ah, who has left him to go through the key is to push him the rice cooker and calm make a noise when it is finished , Hee-ja suggests that it means that he actually care take. Well, he could not starve, but I'm not so sure that his meal everything will be tasty.
hasSeung-jae studied the CCTV videos of Hee-ja Home (now that he has access to their cameras), and with some SAT word problem worthy mathematics withdrawing, that the same time every night , they go to church, leaves to pray and then returns home immediately after. He calls a doctor friend of his up to that friend discuss his who may have dementia.
Granny night with Nan-hee spends, the ready helps them to bed. You can say that her daughter is disturbed by some because of the way she holds her screaming. As Nan-hee Omas cut toenails, she wonders if Nan-hee is angry because it by jokingly committed to the hospital, and Nan-hee, had to waste money. Aw, Grandma looks so sad.
When she her mother sleep clocks, Nan-hee calls Wan which is of a get-together of the younger generation in the middle. Min-ho, his wife, and Jung-ah daughters are to be interviewed there by Wan for the book, but they are much more fun to just hang out with and food and drink.
Wan thinks her mother only their usual to be affectionate even when she says Wan and teasing her to come, asks that they possessed her a friend over, instead of getting harassed because Wan will marry soon find should. Nan-hee wants to know who Wan marries, and she just says: ". A man"
But instead of returning to their guests, Wan calls them back, worried because that Nan-hee could not tell how her usual self seem. Nan-hee hesitates, then grumbles that there is nothing. Your attitude irritated calmed Wan that her mother is her old self, and she wishes her happy goodnight.
Wan focuses on the younger generation (if they are children of all aunts, then is that essentially make them cousins?). She asks if you like her mother all the time, and everyone raises her hand hesitantly. Wan has indicated that she said all time, and it slowly to reduce all of their hands as they admit their mothers can be annoying.
She admits that while she loves her mother at the end to the process can be frustrating get incredible on this point. So today is an opportunity for them to speak freely about their mothers, without taboos.
When she asks what they like the least about their mothers, Jung-ah daughters, after confessing that they know that their mother has had a hard life, in unison say: ". Their appearance" As for Wan, they least what is like that her mother so much, it's more an obsession loves. Hahaha, she admits that she can not help, as an image watching her mother when she is with a man. The horror!
Wan next question is whether they could ask their mothers for one thing, what would it be. Min-ho woman responds first, and she says sincerely that she would ask long to live a happy life her mother a. Oh, I had forgotten that her mother suffered a stroke. The atmosphere grows serious for a moment, but then Wan and the "cousins" toast their mothers again to start the party.
Young-won hosting a dinner for the film crew when Nan-hee calls asking a referral for a hospital. Young-Won immediately takes them to do Oma, but Nan-hee assures her that it is only ulcers. When she asks if Young-won every doctor knows that specializes in liver cancer, says Young-won she does. Nan-hee: "Did you him today?" Ha, Young-Won teases that she wishes she did
Speaking of dating, Young-Won. Nan-hee on the fact fills that her ex-husband wants to see her one last time before leaving to America. She thinks about him agree to meet, and Nan-hee recalls her best knows her by all, and that at this point, she knows that Young-won has already made its decision, she wants to do.
as if their right to demonstrate, calling Young-won on her ex-husband. It is sweet, as they softened her voice and expression in the younger a woman, nervous and worried about how he would respond to her request to see him one last time. She says she's still just a stupid girl who was never able to get over him the first time.
When Nan-hee watches her mother sleeping with her fingertips she writes gently out back "Mom" on grandma. She whispers that she's scared and then buries her face in my grandma's back as she tried to cry, to numb not to wake her mother.
Seung-jae is an alarm, so he'll get up in the middle of the night to watch Hee-ja. Your body clock is straight to the point, and it is up and heads out, so that Seung-jae unrecognizable to leave his house, too. He followed up in the church where she kneels before the altar and pray earnestly.
Without disturbing them, he watches from a distance. They are not aware someone when they go back home, take a moment to stop and smell the flowers. Seung-jae sees her return home, and then goes back home themselves.
He is surprised when Hee-ja calls him, and she tells him that she can not sleep. She worries that she woke him, but he assures her he was already awake. He tells her that it's the middle of the night and she was back to sleep, and she agrees, especially when he offers her to sing a lullaby.
Oh, it actually works, and soon falls asleep Hee-ja. Even when the phone out of the hand of ear slips, Seung-jae continued to sing, only to stop when he confirmed through CCTV that she finally falls asleep.
Nobody would expect Nan-hee bad medical news the next day, as she takes happily to their clientele. But once they the restaurant closes, she asks about mothers their employees to know that they had been diagnosed with cancer
An employee says that her mother died -. The cancer finally took over. Nan-hee's face falls, but then she cheers again when she tells other employees that cancer her mother was misdiagnosed when they actually removed the tumor. Doctors can be wrong! But Nan-hee calming seems short-lived.
Seung-jae takes the footage of Hee-ja to the doctor, who says that if she has a difficult time to say that from day night, then there is a likely chance that their dementia is getting worse ,
It's test day for Choong-nam! They stressed good on their practice test for the college entrance exams, when Seung-jae finds about doing. She thinks that he is there to cheer them up, but he invites a cup of tea. Choong-nam wonders why he looks so sad and crying for him that he should break with Hee-ja and find someone else. How, you know, her.
Hahahaha, Choong-nam prays, "everything" to help the test to her. I hope that it does so only to show the guys tease keep them.
Suk-gyun follows Jung-ah home, she mockingly for receiving a contact slip for a menial job. She does not care when. She has to live their own lives. In addition, it should not be at work? He tells her that he was fired, and it is just as "good for you."
He says he then but Jung ah blames recycling in the street picking up at the end of him for trying to take a job from the really poor, as he could sell his house straight. He continues to follow them home, and watched them prepare their lunch.
He proudly shows he made the soybean paste soup, admits that there are strange tastes at first, but eventually you get used to it. Jung-ah finally tried and merely confirms that it is edible.
on a common meal, Suk-gyun tells her that he went to the old house where they had their honeymoon, and he was reminded when a miscarriage. He apologizes that he did not take it on that day to the hospital. Jung-ah literally rotates the table, as they know demanded why he now brings up the.
She has never been the type to complain unnecessarily, so why didn 't he take her to the hospital when she said she felt sick. Why? She starts to cry as she yells at him repeatedly to bring her son back.
Nan-hee to a computer room is a computer to use symptoms of liver cancer to seek. Oh no, not they know that the internet to read about disease is always the worst idea? It looks for the survival, but as it is scanned by the left, her musician boyfriend appears.
He tells her that he would like time to go here on his day off to spend, and was surprised to see them in a place of youth is mainly to play Starcraft. She quickly closes the browser window and explains that she has no computer at home and need to explore something.
He invites her to go on a walk with him, and let me just say, every walk, depending churros is definitely the best way brings. He presents himself as Lee Il-woo, pointing out that they did not even know each other's name until now. This gives him the idea of a fortune teller to visit that frequented the Café he plays on.
Since the cafe server they are their beer, he whispers something in Il-woo ear and Il-woo immediately says "we are friends." Nan-hee asks jokingly if the server said that she too old , looks to be his friend, and Il-woo smooth says he said she looks beautiful. What a smooth talker.
The fortune teller arrives, Nan-hee tells her that she wants to know how long they will live. As for Il-woo, he wants to know if he and Nan-hee will end together. She tried to hide her laughter, but he says he's serious. She warns him not to joke around too much because her late husband was like and he landed on her cheating.
The fates disfavor Il- woo and Nan-hee relationship and Il-woo grumbles that she's a terrible fortune teller. But Nan-hee disagree - said Nan-hee would live long. Then she asks why Il-woo is so informally talk to her - after all, she is older than he is
He apologizes, without having done even realizing it .. She tells him that she does not want he give them all nice "noona" nickname, but he could be respectful at least. He playfully exaggerates its formal language as they discuss a few, who he insists are either married or just friends, but who are Nan-hee insists having an affair.
Wan calls them only to tell her not to do usual unannounced visit because they busy with work, but Nan-hee says simply that she is concerned - she's on a date. Wan goes over protection mode, as with someone who is practically a stranger warns about her mother, and Nan-hee rattles of all the facts she knows (widow of Il-woo, has a shop, a musician in his spare time, has one child at school).
Despite Nan-hee's insistence that they tellng the truth, Wan laughs at the idea that her mother is dating a much younger man. it is Young-Won, who set up a doctor's appointment was for her tomorrow - Just then Nan-hee gets another call. Il-woo returns from his window shopping to give her a cute bear keychain, which he bought for her. Oh, that's so moving a classic drama romance.
Wan could have her mother warned not disturb while she works, but she seems satisfied the distraction of Yun-ha have. She smiles when she complains that she has to work, but they can not keep their eyes from each other or stop smiling as video chat.
She tells him that she has to work on the novel, so that it is completed by July, and then they can along the beach. He asks if she would really come, and she promises. Oh, I can ignore the faint sense of fear and just enjoy these two give me how happy Wan down the date writes it will return next month Yun-ha the warm fuzzies.
Suk-gyun slowly takes his leave of Jung-ah Place and seems relieved when she calls after him to tell him that the next time he makes soybean paste soup, make sure to add anchovies. Oh, it might not be the biggest olive branch, but at least it's something, and he promises happy the next soup will be filled with anchovies. He, yes; his cooking skills are definitely going to need a lot of work.
Seung-jae drives Choong-nam to Hee-ja is to have them filled in his worries about their dementia. Choong-nam refuses to believe it, and pointed out that Hee-ja has always been a little strange, and it is not dementia, if the person is actually about their actions. What's so wrong with a midnight snack or go to church to pray? It is not uncommon to take part for a religious person in evening prayer.
you and Hee-ja pm adolescents over flowers together as they settle to bed, but Choong-nam can not help but think about how confused was Hee-ja night aunts remained in place. Hee-ja is in a happy mood when she wonders what it would be like on a "youth on flowers" style to go road trip with the other aunts. Ooooh, we can be the next series "aunts about flowers," pretty pretty please?
Choong-nam a second hesitates, then asks Hee-ja when she leaves the house at night, how to pray or something. But Hee-ja thinks that's ridiculous, why should they leave their homes at night, especially to do something that they simply do in the day. Choong-nam then asks how much Hee-ja eating throughout the day, and she says it is not so much, but she poops more than anyone else knows it.
thereof Speaking ... As Hee-ja runs off to use the toilet, Choong-nam begins anxious to realize that Hee-ja dementia after all can have. When Hee-ja sleeping, Choong-nam stays awake, closely watching her.
Suddenly Hee-ja wakes up and starts at the door to go. Choong-nam follows, nervous to ask where it goes. They tried to hide the fear that, when she lurking in her eyes Hee-ja remembers who she is, to tell her that she should leave the house because Chong-nan does not like to be alone.
Hee-ja looks so heartbreakingly lost and confused Choong-nam as it leads to the living room and jammed it back into bed. Asks Hee-ja, where she wanted to go, and Hee-ja says sadly in the church, so she could regret. She refuses it to continue talking, as she begins to cry softly, and Choong-nam wipes her tears gently and remains at her side, holding her hand until Hee-ja asleep.
In the morning she fills Seung-jae in on what has happened. They agree that they will tell Hee-ja the children, but first they will say, Jung-ah, because they'll be the one best to break the news to Min-ho. As Choong-nam hesitates before they call in Jung-ah, Hee-ja rebounds and told her, proud that she made breakfast. Choong-nam says that they will be right there after she makes a call.
When Nan-hee gets her MRI, Choong-nam and Seung-jae say Jung-ah over Hee-ja. The faithful friend refuses to believe it, and pointed out that she knows Hee-ja better than anyone else, and that Hee-ja is getting weird, since she was a child. But Jung-ah, look at all odd cases in recent months, and its defense of her friend recalls sounds more like an attempt to convince himself than anyone else.
They tried to pull together as they shed emotional tears, all their happy times to remember with her boyfriend. She remembers well Hee-ja the explanation why she tries to commit suicide - to keep their children from that to deal with her when her delusion dementia was. This was also the same time Jung-ah had told her that Hee-ja was not allowed to die without them
When she lays her coat -. Your precious gift of Hee-ja - she calls her friends to tell her that she wants to see them soon. She seems happy for Hee-ja, but once they hang up, she has to use the wall to keep them. Asks Choong-nam for a few moments before they go tell Min-ho, and Choong-nam and Seung-jae wait quietly until the sound of Jung-ah sobbing to hear.
After the MRI, Nan-hee home by bus, without hitting any calls dazedly rides. The doctor told her it was urgent to get surgery, but the most he could get would be in three weeks later. They finally picks up the phone when she sees Wan vocation. Wan tried desperately to run the restaurant since Nan-hee has calls not to answer their employees.
Nan-hee told only her, she went shopping, too Wan astonishment, and then hangs up. Young-Won deliberates on her makeup in preparation for their old flame. Seung-Jae, Choong-nam and Jung-ah come on Min-ho work, and he welcomed them happy until he sees the smile on their faces.
Hee-ja goes along the bridge, singing as she carries a pillow like a baby on her back. Nan-hee, on the bus and lost in her thoughts, drives by without noticing it.
COMMENTS
Is there ever going to be an episode of the show, which does not rotate me into a blubbering mess brings up? No? Well, okay, then.
I wish there was a way I could reach through the screen and somehow makes everything right again. Nan-hee would be healed and Hee-ja would be only their 4D itself, minus the dementia. to live Young-Won would be able happy end after they would with their first love and Choong-nam pass their college entrance exams and show these professors what it really means to be an intellectual. Jung-ah would live in her house of dreams, happy and free forever'n'ever and Wan would marry in a beautiful Slovak Church.
But it feels so hopeless as Yun-ha expected to go fully. again next week
No, not hopeless - this is not the right word. Sad, worrisome, fretful - yes. But hopeless? No, not during these lifelong friends have today. Maybe it will not be the idyllic end that I wish, and feel that these amazing women so rightly deserves, but at least I know that, whatever happens, they will have today.
Nevertheless, no one will mind if I slide and pray for a "happily ever after ever" out of my house in the middle of the night, they will? I do not care if it is delusional - I love these aunts too much, it hurts to watch and a few more episodes are broken
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