Mother-Daughter relationships are beautiful at once complex and heartbreaking. The parents are fallible and imperfect children, and to navigate these relationships when you grow into adulthood is only more confusing. Perhaps, like Nan-hee and Wan, could a just companionship, or perhaps, as Jung-ah and Soon-young, it could protect each other, meticulously maintained borders are built. But if these limits break, you should (tears) are prepared for the flood
EPISODE. 6: "The way you are not to go back to on and the road."
crouched in a corner, as they protect against the rain investigated Wan remembers all the happy times, and promises made by Yun-ha. She also remembers vividly the moment when he was run over by a truck. It was for this reason they called Dong-jin -. She is desperate to have someone help her get rid of those memories that do not play in her head stop
When he gently kisses, Young-won and Hee -ja to see around the corner. When Nan-hee draws, their mood high because their pleasant dinner (and drinks!) With her cute musician aunts grab quickly so they will see, not kissing her daughter with a married man.
Hee-ja by Seung-Jae nice way is confused to say "good night" to try to take her son to understand Min-ho call and , what it means. It calls on Jung-ah, wake up the importance to discuss the "good night", but do not understand Jung-ah, why she makes such a big deal of it. Nevertheless it is a good friend, and can scold Hee-ja and raving how much they absolutely do not like each other Seung-jae, fall asleep with the phone next to her ear.
established The other aunts while Young-Won all Nan-hee Nippes inspected in Choong-nam on their evening with her musicians booked with Nan-hee for the evening, and, Nan-hee pleased to tell tipsy. The aunts are adorable, as they act as each group of girlfriends to have a sleepover.
Dong-jin tired Wan escorted back home. She tells him he should leave, then suddenly changes gear and loads it into a cup of tea. It offers a coffee while she is showering and after they cleaned drenched in cold rain. While he prepares the coffee, he sees the pictures of her and Yun-ha.
But his spirit is light as Casablanca together to see, sipping the hot coffee. Wan also in a much better mood, but she hesitates as she tries to figure out how to bring the subject of what has just happened. Dong-jin cuts her off, comfortable to tell her, just watching the film simply because it to feel her better and ruffled her hair as a little child.
He gets up to leave and Wan calls after him. You can only say that they are sorry, but Dong-jin understands the deeper meaning. From her window, she watches him go down the street and internally apologizes for thoughtlessly with Dong-jin to try and forget Yun-ha. trying at this moment Yun-ha calls, but she ignored it. She tells mentally Dong-jin, that this - it's official
The next morning, Hee-ja still obsessed about Seung-jae comment, also call Gi-yes, to see if he still loves her .. she insists that she is no longer interested because it an old lady, but he surprised them by greeting them as it is in the church on foot. Hahaha, at its "Good morning, children," she turns to actually to find out who is talking about it. After all, it is not a "child." - She's an old lady
gossip mill 'aunts, Seung-jae is concerned about the love triangle in fine form as any between Hee-ja, and Choong- nam, and the devastating effects it for their could mean group of friends.
Seung-jae is volunteering the Church institutions to help clean up, and although one of the church ladies flirting with him (the one who was a devilish playboy Hee -Yes warned that Seung-jae), he is Hee-ja focuses on support in the first place. He finds them choking in a bathroom and tried to clean a dirty toilet. He knows it's too much for the discerning Hee-ja and accepts that it can take a break.
Back in Nan-hee home, Choong-nam all pics from Wan studies that are set out. Wan was quite adept child, studying dance, sport and music - all Nan-hee asked of her. In fact, she was a writer Nan-hee to fulfill their own personal dream of writing. Nan-hee says proudly that Wan was the reason she survived through the ages her husband to beat an affair and her alcoholic father and her mother.
Wan just then, comes for no real reason other than because she misses her mother. Choong-nam watching them to know exactly what happened last night with Dong-jin and how much it would Nan-hee crush to learn about it. She asks suddenly Wan, how much she loves her mother, and Wan says so much so that it is a burden. That's all, Choong-nam needs to hear.
Young-won takes Soon-young to the doctor's office, where he sets her broken wrist. He also says Young-won, that Soon-Young's injuries are serious and that it is of them for quite some time suffer.
Worried, Young-Won asks why Soon-young has her parents not telling what happened. Soon-Young admits that she is bitter towards her father, but knows that her mother did the best she could to raise another woman child and does not want to burden them. Jung-ah calls only, and Soon-jung is ignored, Jung-ah leave assume that her daughter is still angry.
to gather the church volunteers in a prayer circle, holding hands as they reflect on their thoughts while volunteering. Flirty Church Lady heap on the praise for Seung-jae's efforts, but he is just happy Hee-ja to keep the hand - or at least her little finger, that's all that will allow them
When it is their turn, are Hee-ja only does it work very hard, otherwise on the straight-forward old lady she giggled, much to the amusement of all she had. After Seung-jae tries to be friendly (while still call her "child"), tries to give her a snack and her a ride home.
But when he hurries to get his car, yes HEE- watched him in amazement, surprised that he is so gullible. When he moves to the entrance of the church, it is long gone. He laughs only when also amused that she is just as attractive as ever.
Choong-nam dies with someone about Seung-jae, but Young-Won has her hands full talking young and young-ah in dealing with Soon-. Choong-nam also worry about what to do with Wan, and begins hesitantly, a text to Nan-hee, who tells her she saw Wan kissing a married man.
Jung-ah would be Young-won visit to have an apologetic for their modest hospitality. She thinks it's just a friendly visit and cheerfully told the evening at colatec spent. Young-won tries to bring Soon-young carefully the subject, but which reminds only Jung-ah, that her daughter her a picture of her with her grandmother (Jung-ah mother) is sent, act as if everything is fine. Jung-ah holds Soon-young to be her best daughter
Young-won asks where Suk-gyun, and Jung-ah says that he with Soon-young husband -. He is the favorite son-in-law, Eventually. Ooof.
Suk-gyun happy accepted Soon-young husband generosity when he buys his father-in-law a jacket, but Soon-young husband is relieved to know that young-ah did not try to come up with Soon-young back to the house or were in contact
Thereafter Suk-gyun visited his older brother in his business -. that's where he delivers a package left money a few episodes. He shows the jackets got from him, to ensure his older brother gets, the better one.
Back at home, Jung-ah by the photos of Soon- looks young injuries. She bursts into tears, to cry her daughter, while Young-won quietly knocking her onto her back. Suddenly gather together, she says Young-won, they have to go to see, Soon-young.
She is in a cafe with a friend to find out as they move to America. Soon-young is happy and smiling, as they make their plans. Watching from a car in front, Jung-ah blames himself. At the beginning of their marriage she had told her mother that her husband's temper scared her. But Jung-ah just told her that all men are so and not to worry about it.
Since they do not bring it back, Jung-ah thought everything was fine. Young-Won says Jung-ah help Soon-young to get a divorce - it's not like it was in the old days, where they endured. Their injuries are too heavy for them to stay with her husband.
Suk-gyun staggers home drunk after his night with his son-in-law and his brother. He is upset that Jung-ah is not there to open the door, but when he comes, he finds her sitting on the sofa, still in her coat, staring out the window. He blames them for not to open the door, and she just tells him that Soon-young to get a divorce.
He laughs at him as ridiculous. Why Soon-young want to leave her perfect man - the professor, while good money makes Soon-young just stays at home and does nothing? He calls Soon-young spoiled and delusional, just like her mother.
Jung-ah slaps him, to tell him that yes, Soon-young, unfortunately, after she takes after so long kept silent, as she did , She throws the images in the face and shouted that it's their fault. She tears his new jacket - the gift of Soon-Young-Man - retreat off the master bedroom, where her heartbreaking sobs heard. Dizziness, Suk-gyun takes the pictures and stares at the evidence of abuse of his daughter.
In grandma's farm, Nan-hee wakes Wan at the sight of Opa to his grandma to enjoy little duckling, not to keep be able eyes away from her. It is nice and good for a laugh, to Wan sees her uncle to settle in his wheelchair, they reminiscent of Yun-ha.
When he stumbles out of bed, Suk-gyun says Jung-ah, she does not need to make him breakfast - he is not hungry. Without respond or even acknowledge his presence, they finished their ablutions and are the bedrooms.
to go to work instead, he takes the bus to the university, to ask where the professor is. If Suk-gyun find Soon-young office man, he on the nameplate on the door Rips (okay, get the bastard a name: Oh Sae-oh) and barges in
Suk-gyun starts beating Sae-oh with what he get on his hands, soon the photos of the injured accused = young to explain his actions. But Sae-oh fights back furiously, pinning his father-in-law against the wall. He takes a photo of the very small injury on his face that Suk-gyun gave him, and also shows photographic evidence, time was that Soon-young to spend with other men.
Suk-gyun says these are just their students to tutors, but Sae-oh never mind. He knows that his wife at a young age was sexually promiscuous, blaming Suk-gyun not act for like a real father to protect them.
Suk-gyun remembers the day when young Soon-young in tears came to him and told him how his boss' son molested had. Suk-gyun had her blamed angry "to ask," somehow for her heart broken protests ignore that they have done nothing wrong.
Back to the present, Sae-oh Suk-gyun throws across the room, adding that he had met his wife, but there is no way that anyone can prove that he is responsible for Soon-young-injury. Sae-oh leaves, confident that he has the upper hand, while Suk-gyun, now suddenly more like a weak old man appeared than ever, trying to collect himself and Soon-Young's photos.
Or maybe he is not as weak as he looks, as he drags an iron pipe about Sae-oh car and smashes the hell out of him. So satisfactory. But it also means he has taken to the police station, and when driving in patrol car, he hears Sae-oh confession he had secretly recorded on his cell phone.
When she sits in Soon-Young tiny room, Jung-ah feels regret about how she raised her adopted daughter. They apologized and admitted that, even though it was wrong, they did favor their biological children than Soon-young. When she breaks down crying after she asks Soon-young, why she could not come to her when she had no problems was.
Soon-Young remembers her wedding day, and how relieved Jung-ah seemed that now as a mother was her duty to the end. She knows that Jung-ah Live has been either not easily what. With her abusive in-laws and miscarriages Soon-young was not intended to make her mother's life more difficult, rather something to hide, the oppressed
But Jung-ah, it can not let go -. It is ready to Sae-oh to tear to shreds for how he treats Soon-young, but Soon-young does not want him to sue, as young-ah suggests. You just want to escape and live a free and peaceful life. Both women cry as they hold each other.
Jung-ah her daughter treated to lunch, and says Soon-young, it is the most precious thing she has had in a long time. Assured Jung-ah, who make their plans for America to move them happy. Jung-ah, it supports, but it's hard to eat as they urge to cry stifles it.
Instead of returning home, Jung-ah goes to Hee-ja. My friend tried to be attentive and hospitable, to know that something is wrong, but refuses Jung-ah stubbornly to talk and instead stares at the TV. Finally, Jung-ah tells her that Soon-young is abused by her husband.
Worried, Hee-ja, what questions they should do, but Jung-ah just hiding her face as she cries. The two friends cling to each otehr than Jung-ah cry on.
The next morning, the aunts drive from Jung-ah mother (and Hee-ja gently tears from eyes Jung'ah wipes to visit as she drives), while Wan in a voice-over explains that someone once said that we are all wanderers on this way of life, and split the road between a will to turn on the back and one you can not - there is a clear separation between the two. Even if you lived a few streets away, you can go back over it and the same sense of excitement to get hope and wonder -. As such Choong-nam feels about Seung-jae
But then there are others where the road is blocked, and you could not go back, even if one wanted. As in the case of Suk-gyun and Soon-young. When your grandparents working in the watch asks Wan, which way you are. Then, when her phone rings, she wonders what path she and Yun-ha are - they can go back, or should they stop? She does not answer his reputation, and his new CD saleswoman friend brings him his coffee.
Suk-gyun and Soon-young eat lunch quietly, but he breaks the silence of the question whether it is true, it really goes to America. He asks her visit, and tells her to have a good life, forget everything. It is defensive to ask whether she's just supposed to forget because he her. He pays for her meal and leaves, they demand to stay in touch.
your resentment is clear when that to reveal her father's free to get in prison, she had to use the money she had saved to divorce and Ask then the store in America. In a voice-over, Wan tells us that they Suk-gyun, without also sent an apology, that's how his true feelings were kept hidden.
be beating to a young Suk-gyun retrospect the crap out boss' son, who molested his daughter. Wan says that he knew that his actions would be fired him, but he could not say Soon-young, he was sad, or how he really felt. He grew up in a time when the parents do not have to excuse their children. Besides, what could he say? That he hated the poor more than the rich to be boy who sexually assaulted his daughter? He was a fool.
Later, when he dies, Wan will show Soon-young all. Wan admits that she learned that life does not end, even if you die - Reconciliation is still possible after death. But now, Suk-gyun calls Seung-jae, to ask if he was still a lawyer -. There is someone he wants to kill
Wan helps aunts and Jung ah mother in the car, as they head off for the day to the sea , Everyone is happy to give out daily Jung-ah mother, but when she squeezes Jung-ah hand, she realizes that this is the last day they will be together.
While Hee-ja hunting for shells and Wan Nan-hee to play around in the sand, Jung-ah wheels her mother on the pier. It points out, all the birds fly free. Hee-ja takes Jung-ah mother to give one of their shells, and as she puts it in her age hands, the fingers do not fully grasp. Jung-ah mother away only sweet and has quietly passed -
This is when she realizes something is not in order. Everything seems to Jung-ah stop, as she looks at her mother down, and it sounds like a young girl, as she continues the birds out. Crying, Hee-ja watches bracketed as Jung-ah with her mother, while Nan-hee and Wan continued to laugh and play-wrestling, full of life on the beach.
When she wraps her arms around her, Jung-ah holds her mother's hands one last time as a bird over the ocean flies freely.
COMMENTS
I'm just stay curled up in a ball trying sobbing and let that my comment, but I think have that I use enough together actual words collected. At least I'll try.
It is to be passed over the sins of the mothers to their daughters something so heartbreaking. It is a narrative poetic, to be sure, but it is also crushingly true-to-life. recognize Watch Jung-ah, that her daughter is trying to deal with years of abuse to burden her mother because she did not because she was told, "so are all human, you just have to learn to deal with it" because she felt not strong enough to leave - just like her mother - is distressing
even so, is the realization that Jung-ah is not only the mother in this situation, but also the daughter .. like her mother in front of her, she lives a life prisoner, dedicated to the care of her family, although her spirit longs to float free as a bird on the wind. Na Moon-hee definitely deserves a kind award for her role because of a moment can go make me laugh with their unabashed joy to me crying in empathy, as her character struggles with the pain of grief.
I am much younger than any of the aunts (and even younger than Wan), and while I have not experienced life as they have it, their feelings are universal and timeless. I may be crazy dizzy with Choong-nam and her back, to know exactly what it feels like a text message from a special person to get up and want everyone to tell them. I may be mistaken for Hee-ja, released bewildered by the attention of someone she has long and want to dissect every little detail with their girlfriends to know what really going. I can sigh with Young-won, as she works tirelessly to keep the friendship group running smoothly, to make the tough decisions when engaging step, and if they let it be.
I feel for Wan, who had to cope with the trauma, to observe the person sent loves run over by a truck obtained which, if it was not bad enough that led the promise of a beautiful relationship to be cut off without warning. Perhaps it was heartless to break from it with Yun-ha, but every time she looked at him, she vividly recalls the day of the accident, I can not really their fault. Although I'm sure we have not seen the last of Dong-jin, I respect them for the realization she had to help her old friend with, to fill a void in her heart that she was not ready on her own face.
As for Suk-gyun, well ... I knew it was coming, or not? I knew the show would he could betray his sympathetic than I be interested in him, and here it is. While I wish he would not in his life, his family and the people to be friendly, that's just not how he grew up. His way of showing he cares for his family has, which he has worked very hard all his life. He is not perfect, and I do not forgive him for everything, but he is not the heartless monster he was first introduced to be. Perhaps his choice is in physical retaliation to defend in terms of his family is not the smartest, but I sure a lot of satisfaction watching him Sae-oh destroy car.
relationships are messy and complicated, and even if you try really hard, you can fail at them. But life is not a pass-fail test - as Wan points out there are many ways that you have to take in his life. Some roads may be easier than others, and some you can take on a wild detour, but in the end, somehow you will reach your goal, even if it was not where you originally planned on.
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